New mom, don't let others tell you that you will "spoil" your baby.
If your baby cries, tend to her. If she wants to be given a "house tour" (what my husband calls holding her and walking her around) then give her one (or a million). If she has already eaten 6 oz. but is still hungry, make her 2 more.
Because you will soon see that they aren't this little forever. Soon enough they will be breaking curfew, asking for the car keys, and putting themselves to sleep.